"Don't worry darling, people throw rocks at things that shine."

I can still hear my first grade teacher in my head saying, "if you don't have anything nice to say, do not say anything at all." And yet it applies even more to me today in my twenties, than it did to me then. We live in a society where being mean, or "savage", is encouraged...it is sad, but the truth. As a blogger and young woman, I know that bullying is still very prevalent. And now with social media, it is easier to attack people than ever before. It is a coward move to attack people through social media, probably because you do not have to be in front of their face, instead you just have a screen in front of you. But even though the person is not saying it to your face, it still hurts, especially when it is on social media for other eyes to see, read, and interpret. 

It breaks my heart to see, how many individuals a year are bullied whether it be in school, over social media accounts and/or text message, or even in your own family. It is NEVER acceptable to make a person feel less about themselves. Each and every person on this earth is unique and important in their very own way and deserves to be treated with respect and dignity. No one, and I mean no one, deserves to be put down for any reason. What people fail to realize is that their words and their actions do hurt. It literally cost $0 to be nice to someone. 

To those that have been bullied (because that is what being mean to someone is!) know that you are worth it and that what they say about you or to you is out of spite, jealousy, and negativity. Like I began this post, "people throw rocks at things that shine." If someone tries to bring you down, it is because you are already above them. Don't fall to their level, and always take the high road (which I know is easier said than done). Just remember that God created you the way you are and that is amazing! Also keep in mind, you are never alone. 

I wanted to write this post today because I want all my readers to realize that they are incredible, special, and deserve all the happiness life has to offer. A lot of times being a blogger, I get a lot of criticism because I am open to the world, and with that comes to the positives and the negatives. People tend to not understand how much work and dedication goes in to being a blogger or vlogger. It takes a lot of time and effort to make sure that we produce the best content for our readers/viewers, all while being true ourselves and our styles. I absolutely love sharing my life, style, and perspective with each and every one of you. I love that I have this platform to be 100% myself with the world. There are a lot of people who think that my blog isn't a "job" and is just a hobby, but I am ready to be back in the blogging game and dedicate my heart and soul into it. Blogging makes me so happy and is such a beautiful part of my life. God honestly has blessed me with this amazing platform where I get to connect with you all and it honestly brings so much joy to my life. 

Please feel free to reach out and share with me. I love receive your messages on Instagram, e-mails, and comments! You all are absolutely amazing! Always remember, it costs nothing to be nice so always treat others the way you would want to be treated and never let anyone make you question your worth because you are priceless.

Thank you for stopping by the blog today! I hope you have an incredible week and stay tuned because I will be sharing my favorite moments from #SwimWeek very soon. XO 

Top: Princezza Boutique (similar liked above) | Skirt: Marshalls (similar linked above) |
Shoes: Steve Madden | Necklace: Taudrey | Ring: Alex and Ani | 
Bracelets: Taudrey, Taudrey, Henri Bendel, David Yurman, Alex and Ani 

Hey gorgeous! I am happy to be back to blogging and sharing more fashion and lifestyle posts with you. Before I begin this post, I would like to say thank you for you love, loyalty, and support. You are the reason that I love to blog and share my stories, experiences, and opinions. I love that my readers read my posts and feel like they are talking to their BFF. I know I have taken a long hiatus, but I am blessed to have loyal readers who have been supportive during my time off. I appreciate YOU! 

Now back to the post! Today is one of my new edition/style of posts to the blog: personal. A lot of you have asked me to do more posts similar to ones I wrote when I was a writer for the Odyssey and I aim to please. ?

For those of you who do not know, in fall 2016, I decided it was time to find a "second home" so I went through sorority recruitment at Florida International University and received a bid from Phi Mu. Just to give you a little background, Phi Mu is the second oldest sorority and was founded all the way back in 1852 by three boss babes: Mary, Mary, and Martha. The Phi Mu chapter in FIU is certainly one of a kind... we dominate in sports, have the highest GPA on campus (contrary to most Hollywood movies--sorority women are actually smart!), and my sisters are pretty amazing. 

A lot of you have asked me questions about now only the process but also my personal opinion on joining a sorority so I went ahead and created a quick Q&A to answer the most commonly asked questions! 

Q: What is rush like? 
A: Rush is a one-of-a-kind experience. Keep in mind, EVERY sorority is different nationwide and so is EVERY Greek community... I kind of don't have the words to explain rush other than it is one of the most stressful, emotional, yet rewarding weeks a girl can go through. The process of elimination is terrifying to be honest, but you come to learn a lot about yourself and what you look for in a home. I went in with an open heart and mind, which is extremely important and my biggest piece of advice. But at the end of the day, you have to trust the system and know you will end up where you are meant to be. 

Q: Are you all alike and best friends? 
A: Absolutely not! One of the great parts about Greek life is that you become sisters with a bunch of young ladies that are unique in their very own ways. That being said, no we are not all "best friends". Sororities typically have 100+ girls (mine is around 120). It is humanly impossible to be best friends with 120 people! Do we all give love and support each other? For sure! But that doesn't mean we are all best friends. 

Q: Are sororities anything like what they are in the movies? (i.e. Legally Blonde)
A: This is one of my favorite questions! I am not going to lie, there are some similarities, but like most things in Hollywood, the depiction of sorority life is definitely exaggerated. Sororities for example do "snaps" for those of your familiar with Legally Blonde, which is basically when sisters send in praises or congrats for another sister or sisters. But unlike the movies we aren't all blonde and worried about impressing Chad from Beta Apple Theta's in his frat's wet t-shirt contest. Like everything in life, take what you see about sorority depictions with a grain of salt! 

Q: What is your favorite part about being in a sorority?
A: Toughy! I would have to say that my favorite part about being in a sorority is the friendships it gave me. And I'm not just talking about with my own sisters, but with other sorority women and fraternity men as well. It makes me so happy and proud to see my sisters killing it too! For example, my sister Mykaya works at Kendra Scott (I know, I'm jealous too) and could see just about anything, my sister Anto just studied abroad and volunteered at a school for people with disabilities, and my alum-sister Becca writes for Miami Food Porn (check out her latest post here)! It makes my heart so happy to be surrounded by such boss ladies! 

Q: What is something that you have gained from being in a sorority other than new friends/sisters?
A: I have definitely learned a lot about who I am, what I want in life, and has helped me come out of my comfort zone. 

Q: What is something that you have gained from being in a sorority other than new friends/sisters?
A: I have definitely learned a lot about who I am, what I want in life, and has helped me come out of my comfort zone. 

Q: What is your favorite thing to do with sisters?
A: Brunch and tailgates are my two favorite things to do with sisters! 

Q: Is it like having "real" sisters?
A: I honestly cannot answer this one just because I don't have any sisters, just two little brothers! 

I hope you all have enjoyed my sorority Q&A! I loved answering your questions. It is always fun to share my experiences with you all. Below I've shared some of my favorite "basic sorority girl" products, that you can shop to really feel like Elle Woods! ?
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